I wonder how many of you say that without realizing the last Monday in May is really not about the unofficial start of summer?
NOTE: Okay,
I’ll grant you that June,
July, and August are pretty cold in the Southern Hemisphere, which sounds like
a crappy deal for our friends down under.
Until you stop to consider they also don’t have Joe Biden and Donald
Trump.
NOTE FOLLOWING A NOTE: That last sentence is sure to tick off both
sides of the aisle. You’re welcome.
On the other hand, Australia does have
Olivia Newton-John. Well, did. Well, they do have Steve Irwin. What?
Oh, eff. Forget it. Mate.
Lost among the hoopla of backyard barbecues
blissfully free of Bud Light, fireworks (for those looking
to get a jump on Independence Day...and their neighbors’ nerves), trips to
Jersey beaches (to watch the annual washing ashore of mob hits), and tropical
storms (in Florida) is the true purpose behind Memorial Day.
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| "It's Clydesdale piss which identifies as beer." |
Decoration Day, recognition of those who gave their lives in the Civil War, was proclaimed on May 5th, 1868, by General John Logan of the Grand Army of the Republic (“Grand.” Well, weren’t they all full of themselves?). Planned for May 30th, it drew former foes together to plant flowers and otherwise spruce up graves of war dead from North and South alike at Arlington National Cemetery.
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| The only civil war in American history. Unless there's a sequel, of course. |
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| "That's kinda depressing." |
To be sure, women in the South were also “decorating” gravesites of their dead from the “Great Cause,” when they weren’t saying “Bless your heart” or “Kiss my grits.” In fact, some sources state that those practices even predated the end of the war. What’s more, some states in Dixie even had their own Decoration Days, mostly in May.
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| "Lemme ask you, you think Scarlett O'Hara would ever do this?" "Right? She's so full of shit." "Bless her heart." "Exactly." |
NOTE: For my non-American friends (and products of the public school system), the American Civil War (or “War of Northern Aggression”-sheesh, those people can really hold a grudge. At least they weren’t vindictive pricks, though.) took place between 1861 and 1865 between the “North” and the “South.” I could bore you with the whys, whens, and whats about one of our most horrific conflicts (this side of a college campus), but I won’t. Let’s just put it this way: a lot of people died and the blue team won. Oh, and it wasn’t technically a “civil” war. Because, let’s face it, there’s nothing civil about getting your head blown off by a cannon ball.
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| "Hey, General Burnside, doesn't it bother you that some of the men are wearing what they call 'sideburns?' "Naw. Could be worse." "Worse? How?" "Well, I could be General Hooker." |
Decoration Day remained an observance of
Civil War dead up until after the First World War. Following one of history’s most idiotic
conflicts (which didn’t end up being the “war to end all wars” after all. Dumbasses.), it was decided that May 30th
would be set aside to honor all
American war dead.
NOTE: And those who lost their lives during
peacetime in service to their country.
The name, however, stuck until it
officially changed to Memorial Day in 1967.
No matter what it was called, though, Americans throughout the nation
took time to honor the fallen.
What seemed to many a civic duty began to
fade after Congress passed the Holiday Act of 1971. An effort to consolidate some federal
holidays into three-day weekends, it shifted Memorial Day to the last Monday in
May. The inexorable transformation from
solemn tribute to summertime bacchanal had begun.
I try my best not to be a crank about the
avalanche of car commercials, barbecue tips shows, or “ABBA to ZZ Top-The Memorial Countdown of the 500 Most Popular Hits of
the 70s, 80s, 90s, and Whatever the Frik We Call the First Decade of the 21st
Century!” It’s hard not to get
caught up in the hype of a country poised at the brink of gloriously warm
weather (sorry, Aussies) and summer reruns.
Hey, I like to walk around with my shirt off and scare wildlife like any
other middle-aged guy.
Still, I remember when Memorial Day used to
be about the Soldier, Sailor, Airman, Marine, and Coast Guardsman. Parades, wreath-layings, air shows,
flag-raisings: those were what I
remember.
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| Or whatever the frik it is these nerds are called. |
But, if I think back really hard (that sounds dirty), I also remember my shirtless father (I’m still in
therapy) incinerating hot dogs from Shop Rite on the grill while listening to Best of the Ventures on his 8-Track
player. All while we played fetch with
our dog-using my little brother’s bathing suit.
With my little brother still in it.
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| "Okay, kids, who wants dogs? Dad's charring them!" |
When we weren’t playing catch with the Lawn
Darts, that is.
Ahhhhh, good times.
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| We are going to miss Uncle Chet, though. |
So, when I get up Monday morning, I’m
going to fly my flag before heading off to see the Memorial Day parade. I’ll place my hand over my heart when the
national anthem is played at the wreath-laying.
And hang on to every word spoken by a veteran from either the American
Legion or the VFW.
Then, I’ll go home to see if I can cook a hot dog better than my dad.
Now that I think of it, I guess the saying
fits:
Happy Memorial Day!
Still, never forget it should also be
Blessed Memorial Day.
Two things can be true at the same time, ya know.
Like Joe Biden and Donald Trump can both be old geezers who suck.
